Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Leading at the Edge #2

 When I tried to recall the leaders I had encountered throughout my high school years, i could only think of two types of leaders.

1. leaders who sacrifice their social lives and become hated but still do all of their work 

2. leaders who don' t do any of their work but are popular amongst their followers.

I guess this is just because i was in a relatively conventional high school where nothing new was accepted and leaders too, were perceived as the #1 categorized leaders. There, they always kept the subtle distance between the leader and the followers just like in Japanese companies. However, in such relationships, 'trust' is the most important element and obviously that isnt achievable with distance. Kristi raised an interesting point during the discussion. When you personally know that leader it's hard to hate him/her but when there's a distance it's easier because it makes you and your opinion more anonymous.

In my opinion, in order to become a good leader, you need not only the knowledge but the likability, the charisma and the trust. Being a leader doesnt mean you need to be able to get everything right nor does it mean you need to kiss your followers' butts for likability. This all needs to come in one package.

Anyways, in Leading at the Edge, it is said that Shackleton gave a speech that changed the attitudes of the followers completely.
 My favorite speech ever to exist is from a movie called The Great Dictator.
The way Charlie Chaplin expresses his emotions here is just...I can't even explain it. haha

Now THAT is a way to end war.


Aside from that here's my favorite speech ever to be given by a youngster. Even though he's a kid, we can't cut him short cause he got his intonations, stresses and postures just right!



10 comments:

  1. Hey Shiho!

    My Middle School History teacher used to ask her students... "Would you rather be a leader who is feared? Or would you rather be the one who is loved?" I thought this question was very deep. Of course, leaders who are feared may easily make people obey but... Is there really trust in their relationships?

    One more thing! Where do you find all these videos?? This kid has got real big eyes. I bet he can convey strong emotions with his eyes! haha
    It was interesting to read your blog :)

    Moeka

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    1. Thanks for your comment Moeka:)
      that is a good question that your teacher raised. i dont think there should be fear but some sort of respect towards the leader that will ultimatey motivate you.

      this was just me wandering around youtube!lol he's so cute rightttt?

      Shiho

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  2. Shiho, it was really interesting reading your blog!! I agree with your perspective on leaders and how those two types are the main (though I definitely wish there is a good mixture of the two). Trust really is an important factor in leadership, and I think that the having the leader trust his/her followers allows them to truly trust their leader.

    And the videos!! The little kid is just adorable:)

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    1. thanks for your comment!
      TASHIKANI it's true that the trust needs to work vice-versa! but it's hard to see that kind of relationship nowadays isnt it?:(

      I knoww<3 i love him to bits.haha

      Shiho

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  3. Shiho
    I agree with you on leaders and their likability. It is so much easier and fun to work with a leader who is friendly and sociable. I also think that a lot of work can be done with leaders that are likable that maybe cannot be done with leaders that aren't. And that's why I think you could become a great leader! You are likable, great on working with others, and talented:) I really think you should try being a leader of something, what do you think?
    Oh, and that kid is too cute:)

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    1. Haru,
      Thanks for your comment and those nice words. I actually have tried being the leader in my high school a few times but thing is tho, i can't say what i need to say to my peers without taking a long unnecessary road, if you know what i mean. lol i also lack self-confidence. haha
      i hope i can nurture those skills tho!
      btw, thanks for saying that!

      i knew you would like him, you baby lover!!!!!ha

      Shiho

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  4. You really like that video don't you, can't really blame you though.
    Does it have to be a leader who does all that? Like what if the leader had helpers, people who are in second in command who try to keep the relationship between leader and follower strong while the leader does his work. Cause no one's perfect.

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    1. yusuke,
      yup i love it to bits and you're probably getting sick of me bringing up that video every time. lol
      well, i guess so! like in my high school tennis club, the leader wasn't the strongest player, the co-leader was. but at the same time, i feel like the leader is a symbol of the whole group and it's abilities...no one is perfect but it would be a great motivation towards the followers to have a leader with the whole package especially in times like these...

      thanks for your comment!

      Shiho

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    1. thank you for your comment Ken! im glad you enjoyed the videos:)

      Shiho

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