Monday, October 14, 2013

it's HOW you deal with it...


i have one friend who's always smiley and constantly remains happy. ask her yourself, 'do you have any worries at the moment?' and she'll give you the best answer ever. 'no. the thing is, i dont like worrying. its so tiring you know.' in case you havent guessed already, its megumi kii. haha but its not like she hasnt been through hardships in life. i mean i'm her friend and i know what she goes through but never have i seen her talk badly about a situation or a person. 
i think life depends not on the weight of the matter but HOW you deal with it. 

Say you have a conflict with someone. Whether you're a leader or not, you actually have the choice to choose whether to hate that someone and exclude him/her from the team or to actually accept that person for what he/she is without any hard feelings. some people might call this 'optimism' but i'd like to call this a way of life. 

i've never ever thought that it was possible for someone to live without any worries in life but megu showed me that it was. and when you've got someone like megu who's always positive about life, you find yourself starting to smile as well. it's extremely infectious. 


whoa, i think i just wrote a post dedicated to her.lolol
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5 comments:

  1. Megumi HondaOctober 15, 2013 at 1:13 AM

    Shiho,
    That's so sweet that you dedicated a blog post to megu haha
    megu is such a sweet person, and I agree, her smile is very infectious:) I have a best friend in the U.S. who is like that too and he seriously helps me get through everything.

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  2. UnknownOctober 15, 2013 at 1:20 AM

    Yeah I agree that Megumi always has a smile and is ready to entertain someone :) There are people who have things to rely on when their worried but I think it is a great choice to decide not to worry about anything when it gets you in a depressing mood.

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  3. UnknownOctober 15, 2013 at 6:55 AM

    I think it's one of Megu's talent to always be smiling no matter what. And I agree, it makes the people around her smile as well. I start wondering why I was so down and depressed when I see her smiling or hear her laughs! I know Megu has been through hardship like all others, but the way she treats and overcomes them is something worth thinking about. I LOVE YOU MEGUMI

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  4. UnknownOctober 18, 2013 at 6:18 PM

    What! I want a post dedicated to me too! Super jealous of Kiichan right now.
    You know what, you have a great point there.
    It is a way of life. Every living man or woman on the planet is going to face problems some way or another without a doubt. It's not luck that makes a person's life better. It depends on the person himself/herself whether the "ideal life" can be insured or destroyed.
    This post gave me a really important reminder. I was really having troubles with this kind of thing recently. But this kind of helped me get over it. At least for a day haha. All jokes aside, thank you for this Shiho:)

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  5. Moeka NakamuraNovember 10, 2013 at 5:14 PM

    Hey Shiho!

    I know you wrote this a while ago lol
    I call her "Kiki <3"
    I have Economy with her and now I know her even more.
    I love how I don't have to think about anything when I'm with her!
    It's very difficult for a person to not talk bad about someone but Kiki handles everything so perfectly huh?
    Heart Kiki! She makes me smile :)

    Moeka

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